Funzo kwa familia zetu zisizo na shukrani (Part 1)
Unafahamu abayo yanamkuta au yamemkuta Mcheza mpira maarufu kwa jina la Emmanuel Adebayor ? Ni sakata la familia ambalo kwa hakika jinamizi hili linazikumba familia nyingi za Africa. Wewe ukiwa kama mwafrika tena mtanzania, huna budi kujifunza kutoka katika yanayo endelea katika familia hii. Mtu unajituma kwa nguvu zako zote ili ujikomboe wewe na familia yako ila bado watu hawaoni juhudi zako na watafanya kila wawezalo kukurudisha nyuma. Kweli aliye tuloga katuweza na dawa yake ni kumpata aliye tuloga ili tumpeleke kwa mganga wa kienyeji ubaya wake aliye tuloga asha fariki na hakuna anayejua kaburi lake liko wapi. Kazi tunayo. Nisitie chumvi sana: ENDELEA KUSOMA MANENO TOKA KWA ADEBAYO MWENYEWE.
At the age of 17, with my first wages as a footballer, I
built a house for my family and made sure they are safe. As you all know, I
have received the trophy of African Player of the Year in 2008. I also brought
my mother on stage with me to thank her for everything. In that same year, I
brought her to London for various medical check ups. When my daughter was born,
we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and
didn't wanna know hear about it. Reading your recent comments, some people said
my family and I should consult T.B Joshua. In 2013, I gave my mother money so
she could consult him in Nigeria. She was supposed to stay for 1 week; but 2
days into her stay, I received a call saying she left. Apart from all that l
also gave my mother a great amount of money to start a business of cookies and
different items. Naturally, I allowed them to put my name and picture on them
so they can sell more. What else can a son do in his power to support his
family?
My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25
years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the
cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked
for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is
that business today?
When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great
amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial.
And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in
Peter's death. How? He is the same brother who went and told inaccurate stories
about our family to "The Sun" in other to take some money. They also
sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.
When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a
family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football
academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.
I would not say any anything about my brother Peter Adebayor
because he is not here today. May his soul rest in peace.
My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad
told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to
Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.
I organized a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues.
When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family
member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.
Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my
goods, just in case I die.
For all these reasons, it took very long for me to set up my
foundation in Africa. Every time I try to help the people in need, they had to
question me and all of them thought it was a bad idea.
If I am writing this, the main purpose is not to expose my
family members. I just want other African families to learn from this. Thank
you.
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